About stereotypes

January 23, 2020
About stereotypes

The stereotypes in the head prevent us from enjoying life and cause suffering. It is enough only to see these stereotypes and you can get rid of a huge amount of suffering.
It's very easy to make it  

It's enough to ask yourself : "who said that this should be this way or another"? Some kind of "Authority" covered by diplomas or scientific degrees? Or parents? Or Minister? Or a blogger on the internet?
Why do sufferings come? Because you expect that there must be something that fits in your stereotype. And if it is not fitting - you suffer.
I read a funny story recently. A woman came to a psychologist with a problem-husband has been looking into a cell phone all day long, she walks around naked, and he doesn't pay any attention to her.. if this woman didn't have a pattern that husband should definitely draw attention to her, then she wouldn't suffer or spend money on treatment with a psychologist.
There are thousands of stereotypes.. The Internet provides a lot of advice and opinions on how " a real " man or a " real " woman should behave. These tips create templates in the heads and prevent living a happy life. Why does a man have to bring money and a woman cook food? Why does only a man have to give flowers? Why is a girl + a man it's normal, and girl + girl it's not normal? Who defined this "normal"? And so on.
In short - it makes sense to throw away stereotypes, start listening to yourself and your desires, limit yourself only to the Criminal code and harm to your own health. ☺️
Have freedom, joy and beautiful day ☺️